Momma taught me how to respect a woman!

Please make sure to read the article that inspired me of this exhale in its entirety! Click HERE!!!
It saddens me as a male to see over and over females standing up to this cause more than we as men!
I first thank you for writing this article and charging myself as the man my mother raised, to respect ALL women, as well to STAND for something instead of sitting back and watching whatever the “in crowd” is doing!
I vow to do my part in correcting what "we" as people, are destroying from what so many people have stood for before me as well now!
To the men that read this, I charge you to take a stand with me in being a living example. I’m very sure you wouldn’t want some dude with his “stuff” in your mother nor sisters face, (better yet- lets say any female in your family) while sitting somewhere. Its natural we would be READY to solve that problem quickly without any thought or hesitation in demand of respect of our female love ones.... so why are we allowing it/doing it to someone else mother or daughter?
 Change starts with YOU..one by one! I apologize to women (on behalf of all men) who have been offended/victimized by these acts! To the author JanetHubert.com, I hope you don’t mind me adding this article to where my voice is heard!
With love and respect~

Friends, Loyalty & Love

I believe in the meaning of #truefriend #loyalty and #love not because of you, but because of ME!

Basketball Housewives Fans-GET READY for New Cast and NEW DRAMA!!

Sure to bring some drama to VH1's new Basketball housewives-L.A edition (premiers Aug.29) is the new cast:
My favorite (from Season1 BBHW) Gloria Govan fiancée to Matt Barnes.
Laura Govan as well – (sister to Gloria Govan) known to be the allegedly mistress of Shaquille O'Neal also baby-mother of Gilbert Arenas.

Jackie Christie; wife of Doug Christie
Draya Michelle model and aspiring actress. Draya also received alot of hype for having a brief fling with singer (check out this link)--> Chris Brown & Draya fling hype.
not pictured: Kimsha Artest the ex-wife of Ron Artest. Imani Showalter is the ex-fiancée to Stephen Jackson. Last but not least of the cast is: Malaysia Pargo wife of  Jannero Pargo.

Awaken by the dream.

It baffles me more and more daily as I witness so many people suffering from

·        Depression

·        Loneliness of the heart

·        Betrayal of a love one and/or friend

·        People allowing the curtains of their dreams to close/fade to darkness (and the list goes on).

I question, what kind of world is this we now live in, that accepting defeat of life and being content to live in poverty is okay? There is still a dream in you and it is time to wake it up!

It is very easy to throw in the towel and say, I’ve done all that I can do, there is just no other way, but that’s where your wrong! CHANGE that negative thinking pattern, and declare LIFE! Our actions feed off our thoughts. If you BELIEVE you can’t do it, then you’ve already set your mind for no motivation. There is an old saying, “Birds of a feather flock together”- such a true statement! Who and what are you surrounded by? We often surround ourselves around people who constantly never have anything positive to say, always looking for a “hand-out” or just simply killing our dreams- it’s time to do what sometimes is the hardest thing to do- LET GO of those people. Haven’t you tried over and over so many times, and you feel like your still in the same position? What’s wrong with trying the new method I just spoke about (letting go)? People are sometimes in our life for only a season. What’s to lose in just trying something different? - If someone cares/love you, then they will understand and be okay with your breakage away, to better your life. Who’s to say once you’ve got yourself together, then just maybe the relationship can be restored. Hopefully while you’re away, your stand for change will influence the other party and they will be working on themselves at the same time. What is meant for you shall be for you!

For believers of God this part is for you. Aren't we taught He will provide escape from all hurt, harm and danger? Then why do we as believers pray, yet still sit in self pity parties, giving life to the situation that’s brining us so much hell? I’m reminded of an email I received of a man stuck in a flood. The man called on God for help and believed God would provide a miracle for him. Three different things happened that could have saved him, yet he was too focused on what he thought God was going to do. In the end of the story, he drowned and went to heaven, finding himself standing before God asking, “Father why not save me from the waters?” God reminded him of the three things He provided, that could have saved his life. The point I’m trying to make is- ARE YOU PAYING ATTENTION to your ESCAPES (You may have just received a minor escape from this “wake-up” reading)? We're NOT designed to live in defeat over anything including harm and hurt to your mind as well heart (aka broken marriages/relationships)!  If you aren’t a believer or perhaps you DO believe, however don’t really know or trust in God- what’s going to hurt and trying a “different approach” in the way you’re living/believing? I believe if I’ve tried all other angles and its’ still not working- it’s now time to try what I haven’t tried *smile*! Did your alarm clock of life just go off? Don’t hit the snooze button this time…WAKE UP! It’s time to believe in you again.